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मेरे पहले काव्य-संग्रह-स्वप्न शृंगार में संलग्न मेरे आत्मकथन को पढ़कर कोहली जी आपने यह प्रतिक्रिया इस तिथि के अनुसार शायद तीन वर्ष पहले दी ...... मुआफ़ी के साथ कहना चाहूँगी कि यह मैंने आज 22 मई 2019 को पढ़ी अचानक ...

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पूनम माटिया 12.18am22 May2019

Kanwal Kohli 10.01.2013
 
Hello Poonam (Matia) JI: Aap ki life-cycle kay baaray mein padh kar bahut acchaa lagaa. Aur badhie baat to yeh hai, ki jin saadhaaran stithiyon say aap bachcpan mein guzreen hain, woh bhi aap bilkul nahien bhuulien!!!


Iss kay ilaawaa aapki shuru ki shikshaa kay baaray mein bhi detail mein padhaa aur phir bahut achaa lagaa, ki shuru say hi aap awal darjay par aatie rahien, jiski wajeh say aapko apni adhyapikaaon kaa bhi sadaiv puraa sneh miltaa rahaa.
In fact, there’s a great resemblance betweeen u n my mother’s education n tough journey of life. Even she was simply class 8 pass when she got married; meanwhile the partition took place and my parents came to India in 1947. And, besides other commitments to joint family (me just about a yr old at that time), her husband & the society, she again took courage and simultaneously started teaching as well studying herself…..even while in the teaching job she continued her self studies….. reached M.A., B.Ed and is now leading a retd life at 80+……

Education is of three kinds – parental, schooling and environment and I feel that in your case also it has just been like that. Moreover, as I see from day-1, u got into the reading habit, which has really given u a lot of impetus n exposure in life. And then when u started appearing on the school stage, that added to ur confidence. Moreover, the T.V. too accelerated your growth, in every sense.

Coming to college life, even being a Science student, literature remained your first love.!!! Moreover, it’s highly creditable that you were as much at home with the English literature as the Hindi Literature….The plus point in ur case was that u remained a very devoted student, throughout ur life. It’s also heartening to know that even when u became financially sound, highly educated and flourished in life, ur feet always remained on the ground, which is highly commendable.

I know u hv remained a great thinker and have always believed in dreaming big for urself!!! Yea, life mein goals to honay hi chaaheeyaen. Hv also enjoyed reading ur transition period, where-in you became a family person, having ur own lovely family and enjoying all this, while giving full credit to all those who helped u, in some way or the other, to achieve excellence in ur life. Well, u hv made ur home happy and so u hv been happy to live in it!!!

Thus u blossomed from a petal into a full grown lovely flower, having attained higher maturity levels too all along the life’s journey. And the best thing is that u hv always tried to put ur life’s experiences (including the city n the village life) into ur writings too.

Indeed u hv always remained a restless soul, as u hv never been satisfied with ur achievements, which is why u even tried ur hands in the field of Arts n Crafts plus tried to venture into some kind of business activities. I can also understand that besides ur own growth, u hv left no stones unturned, to ensure that both your daughters (dear Tanya n Tarang) get groomed very well in their own spheres of life, and I feel that both of them have really made u proud through their success n achievements in their respective fields…..

You have undoubtedly even been a very good organizer in life. Indeed u hv handled several stage programmes very successfully. I’m very impressed to know that u hv always given due credit to all those, who hv helped u climb the success-ladder, whether it be ur dear husband, Naresh ji or ur
respected in-laws.

Later on u started getting fascinated towards the computer n the internet and gradually stepped into the gr8 world of the FB, where I also hv had the privilege of being accepted by u as one amongst ur 5,000 odd friends, coming from different sections of the society. I’m proud to know how some of ur FBFs have encouraged u not only to write more n more but hv even helped u to get your articles published in different magazines n so on……until ur own written book “Swapn Shringar” also appeared on the scene. Poonam ji, u hv really made all of us very proud n please accept my congratulations (to u, ur dear family n all ur loved ones) for the same.

Indeed u hv already become an FB Celebrity long since and friends like me are proud to hv come into ur fold. Your life’s journey, ur confidence and ur great success story will certainly give a lot of encouragement to all those, who are just in the prime of their life, like u were once……

Pray that u soar high above in the sky – I mean sky may be the limit for u – and u achieve all that in life, which you aspire. In other words, May God fulfil ur heart’s wishes n choicest desires in the years ahead and may u always be very happy with ur kith n kin.

May God bless u with all the happiness in the world.
Your well-wisher
KK

5 comments:

  1. Shri Kanwal Kohli जी ने बहुत अच्छे तरीके से Poonam के आत्म कथन को पढ़ा उसका विश्लेष्ण किया .....फिर उसे अपने शब्दों में उसको अपनी जिन्दगी और अपने परिजनों की जिन्दगी से तुलना करते हुए बहुत ही सुन्दर शब्दों में हर पहलु का वर्णन किया ...इस तरह के लेख कभी-२ ही लिखे जाते है.....its a real tribute to you and to your work and to your achievement from a real friend and a well wisher.....

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    1. Naresh Ji,I'm really humbled n touched by appreciation and feelings for me....love n regds KK

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    2. yes , Naresh Its true that Kohli ji has very well analysed and then gave an encouraging respose , that too in depth

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  2. Dear Poonam (Matia) Ji,
    It is my pride and privilege to have you as a friend. I have always seen you as a strong-willed woman, with deep self-respect and extremely passionate about your sweet family, which you reared with grace and dignity.


    Jis talented poet va writer (n much more) kay hundreds of fans aur aadha lakh kay kareeb followers hoon, unmein say aik honaa humaaray waastay kitnay garv ki baat hai...humain yaad hai kitnay intzaar kay baad aapnay humaaree “Friend’s Request” sweekar ki thii aur ab aapko jaan kar khush ho gi ki hum aap say December 2012 say juday huay hain.

    Though to struggle is life and struggle never leaves us, but I feel now you can lay back and enjoy the fruits of your hard work. Amen.


    Please don’t feel guilty at all for not going through my feelings or for not responding to me.... in fact aaap apnay kaam mein sadaiv itni wyast rehti hain, jiski wajeh say shaayad aapko yaad nahien padh rahaa ki humnay 10.01.13 ko pehli baar aapkay baaray mein yeh post kiyaa thaa, jiskaa aapnay turant jawaab bhi diyaa thaa:


    “Kanwal Kohli ji .........
    namskaar
    first and foremost plz accept my hearty thnx for reading my biography with deep interest ......
    then responding with such depth of emotional wrds
    and then last but not the least quoting ur Mother's uncomparable achievements in my context ......
    I wd like to tell u that in not even a slightest hair thin measures i can compare to Ur respectable mothers' hard wrk and motivation in difficult times
    I m happy to get ur detailed messages in this age of fast track sms language.
    I m too happy to get an intelligent person like u as my frnd .....
    I value ur each wrd of appreciation and wishes and a bunch of beautiful flowers ........along with a relevant pic of mine thnx for being so thoughthful
    regards
    poonam
    May u have a long, healthy, busy and happy life with family around and with u.”


    Poonam Ji ,I cherish each n every FBF and have great love, admiration n respect for all of them.


    Indeed I'm blessed to be in ur fold, admire u greatly for ur achievements in life, while at the same time being so humble and respectful.


    As already mentioned to you a few days back, God wud know better, why He has picked each one of us from such an ocean-like world n connected us to u.....surely we all learn n enjoy from ur talents n life's rich experiences, which u share here through ur rich writings, invaluable thoughts, poetry, shayri and so on...may the journey of your life be fragrant with new opportunities, your days be bright with new hopes and your heart be happy with love! May the present n the future bring prosperity, love, happiness and delight in your family.


    May I add that I have just shown ur आत्मकथन (Autobiography) to my mom, 88 now, who has read it with great interest n she sends her love n blessings for ur loved ones.



    Even I’m thankful to u for ur good wishes n blessings for me n my dear family......Highest regds.......KK

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    1. Omg! thnx amma ji for showering her blessings and thnx again to u for loads of love

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